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Be Beattitudes - Matthew 5:5

2007-01-17T11:11:00.001+07:00

Matthew 5: 5 ----> Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.

Word Study:

A. Meek:

- Greek: prautes ----> an inwrought grace of the soul, strength under control. It is the temper of the Spirit which we accept His dealing with us as good. Prautes is a condition of mind and heart.

- Hebrew: anav ----> Entirely depended on God. It is those who quietly submit themselves to God, to His Word, to His rod, and follow His direction.

When you’re in control of your strength you’re meek and you don't over react to people. Jesus is saying continual happiness is for those who control their reactions. Meekness is not cowardice/weak. Meekness is commanded by God to us and it is the fruit of power. The opposites of meekness are sudden anger, long harbored vengeance, malice, selfishness. If you want to live at a higher level then you must become meek. If you want to live continually a happier and more fulfilled life you must control your emotions.

Why we develop meekness?

Because meekness produce peace
Meekness is a proof of true greatness of soul

Five Ways of Being Meek:

By understanding not demanding

Philippians 2:4-5: Don't just think about your own affairs, but be interested in others too, and in what they are doing. Your attitude should be the same as Jesus Christ's. (GNB)
Most of the time it’s easier to be demanding than it is to be understanding.
Meekness takes into consideration the feelings of others and not just my feelings.

Being gentle not judgmental

High level living says that people don't have to reach up to your standards to be loved.
Galatians 6:1-2: If a person is trapped in some sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens. (NIV)

Being tender without surrender

We must be tender without surrender.
The test of maturity is how you handle disagreeable people, people who irritate you, people who like to contradict you, people who like to get in arguments and like to quarrel with you.
It's not being passive, or giving in, or letting the other person have their way.
Meekness is not compromising your convictions. It is knowing what you should do in a given situation and doing it regardless of the situation you are in.
James 3:16-17: Wherever there is jealousy or selfish ambition, there will be disorder... But wisdom from above is pure, peaceful, gentle (meek), and friendly. (GNB).
Meekness is learning to disagree agreeably. An argumentative spirit indicates an ego problem. If you like to quarrel, if you like to get into arguments, you've got an ego problem.
Meekness is being able to walk hand in hand without seeing eye to eye

Being teachable without being unreachable

Meekness is a teachable spirit. Meek people don't pretend they know it all.
James 1:19 Let everyone be quick to listen, but slow to use his tongue, and slow to lose his temper. (JBP) This verse teaches you how to control your temper. If you do the first two, the third is automatic.
If you’re learning you’re growing. Proverbs 13:18: Whoever listens to correction is honoured. (NIV)
I’d rather change my mind and succeed than have my own way and fail."

Being pro-active not reactive

Take the initiative.
Romans 12:17, 21 Do not repay evil for evil but overcome evil with good. (NIV)
An unavoidable fact of life is that you will be hurt. But, the question is “How do you respond to it?”
Meekness is the ability to handle a hurt without retaliating. Proverbs 16:32: He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his own spirit, than he who captures a city. (NIV)
You're emotions are either controlled by your circumstances which is low level living or by the right attitude, which is high level living. We choose the level of happiness we live at.
Meek people are self-controlled, they chose their reactions to life.

B. Earth:

- Greek: the globe, the landmass, the ground AND it’s occupants!

- Hebrew: It is ‘Nations’. You will seize upon, possess, take forcibly, NATIONS! (Psalm 37:11)

Proverb 4: 23: Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Issues of life (refer to geographical expansion, worldly property and success in life)

What do we learn?

A meek person is: - Understanding, not demanding

- Gentle, not judgmental
- Tender with out surrender
- Teachable, not unreachable.

I need to be desperate for God. Without his help I cannot hang on to Him.
I am totally 100% dependable on Him for his love, grace and mercy.
I need His power and strength today!
The reward for being meek: They shall inherit the earth (land)
Titus 3: 2: “To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.” God wants us to show meekness toward all men

Sahabat.... - Puisi

2007-01-12T22:34:00.000+07:00

Sahabat.....
Tanpa senyummu, hidupku terasa hampa.
Tanpa tawa candamu, hidupku seolah tak berwarna.
Tanpa kehadiranmu, hidupku pun tak berarti.

Sahabat.....
Disaat kusedih dan terluka, kau ada untuk menghapus air mataku.
Diwaktu kumerasa sendiri, kau ada untuk menemaniku.
Dikala kuputus asa, kau ada untuk memberiku harapan.
Ditengah badai permasalahan, kau ada untuk membantuku.

Sahabat....
Dimanakah kau hari ini?
Aku kesepian, tapi kau tak ada disisiku...
Aku kecewa dan disakiti, sedang tiada kau yang menghiburku...
Aku sedang patah semangat, namun kau tak lagi memberiku semangat...

Selamat Tahun Baru 2007 - Puisi

2006-12-31T21:53:00.000+07:00

Hari ini, 31 Desember 2006...
Tak terasa, kita telah berada dipenghujung tahun 2006.
Tahun 2007 sudah menanti didepan sana...
Tahun yang baru mulai dimasuki...
Hari-hari yang baru mulai dijalani...
Pengalaman-pengalaman baru menanti untuk dialami...
Lembaran kisah baru tak kalah menariknya untuk dilalui...
Tantangan baru pun tak kalah serunya untuk dihadapi...
Namun, senyum optimisme tak pernah hilang dari bibir ini.
Semangat pantang menyerah tak boleh pudar dari jiwa ini.
Selamat tinggal tahun 2006...
Kututup setiap lembaran kisah ditahun 2006.
Biarlah setiap kesuksesan dan hari-hari indah yang kualami,
Selalu menjadi motivasi yang membangun di tahun 2007.
Biarlah setiap kegagalan dan kenangan pahit yang kulewati,
Menjadi pengalaman berharga di tahun 2007.
Selamat datang tahun 2007...
Kusambut setiap detik, menit, jam, hari, minggu, dan bulan dengan penuh makna.
Kusongsong engkau dengan segenap asa yang menanti.
Kuhadapi engkau dengan segenap impian yang tak pernah pupus.

Story chatting di Mirc

2006-12-27T22:25:00.000+07:00

Hari ini aku chatting di Mirc. Trus, aku join channel "bethany". Dilayar, tampak orang-orang sedang saling menyapa. Tiba-tiba, ada seseorang yang ikutan nimbrung di situ. Orang yg ikutan nimbrung ini sedang mengalami masalah tentang "apakah Tuhan itu real ato ga". Dilayar tampak berapa orang mengemukakan pendapat en berusaha membantu. Namun...pembicaraan jadi semakin "panas" lantaran orang yang "bermasalah" ini kukuh dengan "teori"nya ttg Tuhan. Sebenernya...orang yg "bermasalah" ini pernah mengenal Tuhan. Kalo diliat dari ceritanya..dia juga sempat "menginjil". Tapi....dia merasa bosen dengan Tuhan. Jadinya dia jadi bersikap "menentang" terhadap semua orang yg berusaha "mengembalikan dia ke jalan yang benar". Alhasil, perdebatan pun semakin panas. Orang-orang yg tadinya berusaha membantu pun menjadi kehilangan kesabaran, dan akhirnya mereka mulai mengkritik en menghakimi orang yang "bermasalah" ini. Kemudian...perdebatan pun terhenti karena ada pihak lain yang "nge-banned" orang ini.

Well, sebenernya...aku secara pribadi ga setuju dengan adanya perdebatan rohani seperti ini. Soalnya, "kenyataan" akan Tuhan memang ga bisa dibuktikan secara teoritis. Itu lebih kepengalaman pribadi kita dengan Tuhan sendiri. Yang disayangkan...banyak orang kristen berusaha menjelaskan dengan hal-hal rohani,atau bahkan kutip ayat, sehingga sering menimbulkan "perdebatan" yang justru tidak membuat nama Tuhan dipermuliakan, tetapi justru membuat "orang kristen" kehilangan "kekristenan"nya...Bingung ya?? Maksud aku... jadinya kan kita "kesal" karena orang yg "bermasalah" tadi kukuh dengan "pendapatnya" sehingga kita menjadi "tidak sabar" dan mulai "menghakimi" mereka. So, kalo disaat seperti ini hal tersebut terus berlanjut, maka "kekristenan" kita pun terancam. Padahal...org kristen dikenal dengan orang yang menunjukkan kasih Kristus, penyayang sesama, panjang sabar, dll. So, hati-hati dengan hal yang membuat "kekristenan" kita di pertaruhkan. Coz, Tuhan ga perlu dibela...karena Dia sanggup membela Dirinya sendiri... GBU all...

Christmas Poem (By: Ay Ling)

2006-12-24T23:00:00.000+07:00

Christmas is approaching...
Ev'ry heart's singing...
Ev'ry where's the carolling...
Ev'ry body's smiling...
Coz Jesus is coming...

The spirit of Christmas
Touch ev'ry heart
With love, joy, and peace
Our Saviour was born to earth

Hope from above
Given from God
To the men on earth above
Bring goodness and prosperity from God

Wishing you a warm Christmas
And a joyous Season Greetings

Beri Aku.... - Puisi

2006-12-14T20:16:00.000+07:00

Beri Aku...

Beri aku dua pasang mata, Ya Tuhan....
Sepasang mata tak lagi memadai,
Karena aku punya sahabat,
Untuk ditatap dengan penuh makna....

Beri aku dua pasang tangan, Ya Tuhan....
Sepasang tak lagi cukup,
Karena aku punya sahabat,
Tempat tanganku selalu sedia....

Beri aku dua pasang kaki, Ya Tuhan....
Sepasang tak lagi bisa,
Karena aku punya sahabat,
Yang kan kusertai kemana pun....

Beri aku dua pasang telinga, Ya Tuhan....
Sepasang tak lagi mampu,
Karena aku punya sahabat,
untuk kudengarkan curahan hatinya....

Jadilah Dirimu

2006-12-12T19:46:00.000+07:00

Kamu harus nyata. Jangan palsu. Hiduplah sebagai dirimu sendiri. Yang tersulit didunia ini adalah menjadi sesuatu yang bukan dirimu sendiri. Saat kamu semakin mendekati dirimu apa adanya, tetaplah seperti itu, dan hiduplah seperti itu sepanjang waktu. Kamu akan mendapati bahwa itulah cara hidup yang mudah.
Jika teman-temanmu menertawakan bajumu, tertawalah bersama mereka.... Dan tetap saja pakai bajumu.
Jadilah dirimu sendiri, dunia akan beruntung karena bakat dan kejenakaanmu. Carilah orang-orang yang kamu sayangi dan yang menghargaimu apa adanya dan menyemangati kamu untuk berkembang. Jangan berpuas diri untuk sesuatu yang kurang dari potensi totalmu, karena kamu memiliki kehebatan didalam dirimu.

The Spirit of Christmas - Part 1

2006-12-09T21:05:00.000+07:00

Symbols of Christmas

Late one Christmas Eve I sank into my easy chair. Admiring the tree with its decorations, I couldn't help but feel that something was missing... The kids were in bed, the gifts were all wrapped, the milk and cookies were in their place for Santa. It wasn't long before the tiny twinkling tree lights lulled me into a deep sleep.

I don't know how long I slept, but all of a sudden I opened my eyes and there stood Santa Claus himself next to my Christmas tree.

He was dressed all in fur from his head to his foot just as the poem described him. But he was not the "jolly old elf" of Christmas legend. The man who stood before me looked sad and disappointed with tears in his eyes.

I had to ask, "Santa, what's wrong? Why are you crying?" "It's the children," Santa replied sadly. "But the children love you," I said. "Oh, I know they love me and the gifts I bring them," Santa said. "But the children of today seem to have somehow missed out on the true spirit of Christmas. It's not their fault. It's just that the adults, many of them not having been taught themselves, have forgotten to teach the children."

"Teach them what?" I asked. Santa's kind old face became soft, more gentle. His eyes began to shine with something more than tears. He spoke softly. "Teach the children the true meaning of Christmas. Teach them that the part of Christmas we can see, hear and touch is much more than meets the eye. Teach them the symbolism behind the customs and traditions of Christmas we now observe. Teach them what it is they truly represent."

Santa reached into his bag and pulled out a tiny Christmas tree and set it on the fireplace mantle. "Teach them about the Christmas tree. Green is the second color of Christmas. The stately evergreen with its unchanging color represents the hope of eternal life in Jesus. Its needles point heavenward as a reminder that man's thoughts should turn heavenward as well."

Santa reached into his bag again and pulled out a shiny star and placed it at the top of the small tree. "The star was the heavenly sign of promise. God promised a Savior for the world and the star was the sign of the fulfillment of that promise of the night that Jesus Christ was born. Teach the children that God always fulfills His promises and that the wise will still seek Him."

"Red," said Santa, "is the first color of Christmas." He pulled forth a red ornament for the tiny tree. "Red is deep, intense, vivid. It is the color of the life giving blood that flows through our veins. It is the symbol of God's greatest gift. Teach the children that Christ gave His life and shed his blood for them that they might have eternal life. When they see the color red it should remind them of that most wonderful gift."

Santa found a bell in his pack and placed it on the tree. "Just as lost sheep are guided to safety by the sound of the bell, it continues to ring today for all to be guided to the fold. Teach the children to follow the true Shepherd who gave His life for the sheep."

Santa placed a candle on the mantle and lit it. The soft glow from its one tiny flame brightened the room. "The glow of the candle represents how man can show his thanks for the gift of God's Son that Christmas Eve long ago. Teach the children to follow in Christ's footsteps... to go about doing good. Teach them to let their lights shine before men that all may see it and glorify God. This is what is symbolized when the twinkling lights shine on the tree like hundreds of bright, shining candles, each of them representing one of God's precious children, their light shining for all to see."

Again, Santa reached into his bag and this time he brought forth a tiny red and white striped candy cane. As he hung it on the tree, he spoke softly, "The candy cane is a stick of hard, white candy. White to symbolize the virgin birth and sinless nature of Jesus. The shape 'J' to represent the precious name of Jesus who came to earth as our Savior. It also represents the crook of the Good Shepherd which he uses to reach down into the ditches of the world to lift out the fallen lambs who, like sheep, have gone astray. The original candy cane had three small red stripes which are the stripes of the scourging Jesus received by which we are healed, and a large red stripe that represents the shed blood of Jesus so that we can have eternal life. Teach these things to the children."

Santa brought out a beautiful wreath made of fresh fragrant greenery and tied with a bright red bow. "The bow reminds us of the bond of perfection which is love. The wreath embodies all the good things about Christmas for those with eyes to see and hearts to understand. It contains the colors of red and green and the heaven turned needles of the evergreen. The bow tells the story of good will towards all and its color reminds us of Christ's sacrifice. Even the wreath's very shape is symbolic, representing eternity and the eternal nature of Christ's love. It is a circle without beginning and without end. These are the things you must teach the children."

"But where does that leave you Santa?" I asked. The tears gone now from his eyes, a smile broke over Santa's face. "Why, bless you, my dear," he laughed. "I, too, am only a symbol. I represent the spirit of family fun and the joy of giving and receiving. If the children are taught these other things, there is no danger that I'll ever be forgotten."

"I think I'm beginning to understand at last," I replied. That's why I came," said Santa. "You're an adult. If you don't teach the children these things, then who will?"

The Beattitudes - Matthew 5:4

2006-11-30T19:43:00.000+07:00

Matthew 5: 4 ----> Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.

Word Study:

Blessed : makarioi ---->

- ultimate spiritual well-being, prosperity and distinctive joy of those who share in the salvation of the Kingdom of God.

- Joy and satisfaction in God's favor and salvation regardless of their outward conditions.

Blessed is not the same as happy. Happy à hap (favorable circumstances), so a happy person is a person who has a good luck. Blessed person has his satisfaction not from favorable circumstances but from having the right attitudes. So, our happiness is not determined by what’s happening around me, but by what’s happening in me.

Mourn : hoi penthountes ----> sorrow for one's sins and the sins of others, to cut or to strike the bosom or beat the breast as an outward sign of inward grief

Mourn is sorrow because convicted of sins, not because of get caught or get the consequences of sin. Just like the tax collector in Luke 18:13 =

“And the tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, 'God, be merciful to me a sinner!”

Comfort : parakaleo ----> to call to one's side, call for, summon, to address, speak to, (call to, call upon), which may be done in the way of exhortation, entreaty, comfort, instruction, etc.

Jesus is our comforter and nothing that we experience that He does not understand. He promises that He will comfort us.

What do we learn?

When we commit sins and the Spirit of God convicts us, we need to mourn for doing such sins and ask for God’s repentance. We need to humble ourselves and admit our sins. We need to ask Jesus to overcome sins day by day because only by His grace we can overcome sins.

Xiamen...Oh, Xiamen.....

2006-11-27T22:05:00.000+07:00

Xiamen, I’m in Love

I still remember the time when I was in Xiamen, China. Actually, for me, it seems like I’ve been dreaming that I finally have the chance to study Chinese in China. If I flashed back again to the year 2003 when it came into my heart the desire to go to China (I went to China February until December 2005), I was so amazed of how God brought me to China. At that time, there was a family of our church who were sent to China for a missionary shared about how God called them for the mission to China. I was so excited to hear their story to in the mission field. They shared how people in China were so hunger and thirst for righteousness, so on fire, and there were a lot of miraculous things happened. One thing that really touched me at that time was that their passion for God and their compassion for the lost. It burnt me a lot to be more enthusiastic going to China, even only for learning Chinese. It’s such a simple goal of going to China, but it really affected much for this nation. Because it’s not just a matter of learning language, but also to give a big impact for this nation.

After that, I also remember when I had my birthday (year 2004), my dad sent an sms for me. It’s about his promise that if he had more money, he would bring me to China. This memory came into my heart when my dad himself delivered me to Xiamen. He said, ”Ay Ling, isn’t it your dream to go to China? Here we are… In China! Keep on praying for Dad’s job, so that Dad can provide everything you need in Xiamen.” I was touched at that time. I was so grateful to have a father like him. Even though he’s not a perfect father in my eyes, but… He’s the best father I’ve ever had!

My days passed so fast in Xiamen. Ten months had passed. I began to fall in love with this city. The food, the scenery, the people, the fresh air, the shopping centers, the beach, the campus, the friendship…. Everything was really interesting. It’s time to go back to Indonesia for good. My tears dropped when I was about to leave this city. I didn’t know when I had the chance to visit this city again. I think I’m falling in love with Xiamen… It’s so…..memorable!!

Who Am I

2006-11-25T21:26:00.000+07:00

- I am the salt of the earth (Matt 5:13)

- I am the light of the world (Matt 5:14)

- I am a child of God (John 1:12)

- I am part of true vine, a channel of Christ's life (John 15:1)

- I am Christ's friend (John 15:15)

- I am chosen and appointed by Christ to bear His fruit. (John 15:16)

- I am a slave of righteousness (Rom 6:18)

- I am enslaved to God (Rom 6:22)

- I am a son of God ; God is spiritually my Father (Rom 8:14, Gal 3:26 , 4:6)

- I am a joint heir with Christ, sharing His inheritance with Him (Rom 8:17)

- I am a temple -- a dwelling place -- of God. His spirit and His life dwells in me (1 Cor 3:16; 6:19

- I am united to the Lord and am one spirit with Him (1 Cor 6:17)

- I am a member of Christ's Body (1 Cor 12:27; Eph 5:30)

- I am a new creation (2 Cor 5:17)

- I am reconciled to God and am a minister of reconciliation (2 Cor 5:18-19)

- I am a son of God and one in Christ (Gal 3:26; 28)

- I am an heir of God since I am a son of God (Gal 4:6-7)

- I am a saint (Eph 1:1, 1 Cor 1:2 , Phil 1:1 , Col 1:2)

- I am God's workmanship -- His handiwork -- born anew in Christ to do His work (Eph 2:10)

- I am a fellow citizen with the rest of God's family (Eph 2:19)

- I am a prisoner of Christ (Eph 3:1 ; 4:1)

- I am a righteous and holy (Eph 4:24)

- I am a citizen of Heaven, seated in Heaven right now (Phil 3:20 ; Eph 2:6)

- I am hidden with Christ in God (Col 3:3)

- I am an expression of the life of Christ because He is my life (Col 3:4)

- I am a chosen of God, holy and dearly loved (Col 3:12; 1 Thess 1:4)

- I am a son of light and not of darkness (1 Thess 5:5)

- I am a holy partaker of heavenly calling (Heb 3:1)

- I am a partaker of Christ, I share in His life (Heb 3:14)

- I am one of God's living stones, being built up in Christ as a Spiritual house (1 Pet 2:5)

- I am a member of a chosen race, a royal priest-hood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession. (1 Pet 2:9-10)

- I am an alien and stranger to this world in which I temporarily live (1 Pet 2:11)

- I am an enemy of the devil (1 Pet 5:8)

- I am a child of God and I will resemble Christ when He returns (John 3:1-2)

- I am born of God, and the evil one -- the devil -- can not touch me (John 5:18)

- I am not the great "I am" (Exod 3:14; John 8:24, 28, 58), but by the grace of God, I am what I am (1 Cor 15:10)

Thanks a lot Internet...

2006-11-23T23:21:00.000+07:00

Today i'm so happy... Why? Not because I got the first winner in the lottery...not because i get a boyfriend...(maybe, if i get boyfriend, I will be happier...waakakaka....just kidding!!) Hmm, it's because...i met my old friends in a night through chatting! Wowww...isn't it amazing?? I said so, because both friends I met today were my junior high school friends and my university friend. En...it's been a long time i lost contact with them!! Can you imagine?? It's been 2 years...or more maybe i lost contact with them, but in one night...i can share a lot of stories with them!! Thanks to internet... Coz, it help me to find my old best friends....

Words of Encouragement 2

2006-11-19T20:51:00.000+07:00

Today's Words of Encouragement:
1. The essence of maturity is change.
2. It takes courage to change.
3. If change is necessary, not to change is destructive.

"Hidup kita ini dibentuk dari pilihan-pilihan yang kita buat setiap harinya, dan kita menjadi hamba dari keputusan yang kita buat sendiri"

The Beattitudes - Matthew 5:3

2006-11-15T21:38:00.000+07:00

Matthew 5: 3 ----> Blessed are the poor in the spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

When Christ saw the multitude, he went up into a mountain and started to teach. Part of His teachings on the mount is known as The Beatitudes. So, we will learn God’s guidance to live in supreme blessings, great blessings or happiness. It starts with Matthew 5:3 as the basic foundation.

Word Studies:

Blessed : makarios - supremely blest, fortunate, well off, happy, spiritually prosperous with life, joy and satisfaction in God’s favor, successful

The word "blessed" is an Old English word “bledsian” or “covered with blood”. It refers to the protection and provision of a covenant relationship with God (Gal 3:14-18). Or it could even mean “higher”. As we a covered, protected, and provided for, the key to higher living and having a happy heart is having the RIGHT ATITUDE. Right Attitudes are the prescription for healthy physical, emotional, spiritual and mental well being.

When you read the Sermon on the Mount it sounds like opposites.

– Happy if you're sad...

– Happy if you're poor ...

– Happy if you're put down and persecuted!

That does not sound much like happiness to us. But what Jesus was saying is that we can learn to be happy regardless of your situation or your circumstances. Our happiness is not determined by what's happening around us, but rather by what's happening in us.

Jesus wants to teach us that to experience continual happiness depends not on the right circumstances but it depends on continually having the right attitudes. So, the higher living is a result of right choices, not right situations. It's not how much we have on the outside that makes us happy, it's what we are on the inside that makes us happy. Happiness is something we choose because we choose our attitudes. It’s not something someone else chooses for us because no one else chooses our attitudes for us.

Poor spirit : humble, character of humility, not arrogant or prideful, not setting our hearts on worldly wealth or things of the world, empty of self

What does He mean by “Poor in Spirit”? He's not talking about low self-esteem or putting yourself down or having a low opinion of yourself. Poor in spirit means totally dependant on God, beggarly. It means that we humble ourselves, not arrogant and not full of pride, but saying to ourselves “I am not going to make it without help”, and not setting our hearts on worldly wealth or things of the world.

There is no ME, ME, ME. No “I, ME, MINE”. No, “Eh, gua dulu dong”. Letting others go first. It’s deference and self denying. Not by might or strength because of Christ in me. I can do all things in Christ who strengthens me. We are to be like little children that is depend only upon Christ for our justification and sanctification. He's talking about humility.

The opposite of poor in spirit is arrogance or egotism. Jesus teaches that if we're full of our self, we're never going to be happy. Humility is the first key to taking higher ground. If you want to have lasting happiness then you need to learn to be humble.

Kingdom : basileia - royalty, rule, authority, power, dominion

Talks about authority and power, it means we can be rulers only if we first humble ourselves.

The Kingdom of Heaven is the priceless rewards of living in the presence and protection of God. It is God’s way of doing things.

How does humility increase our happiness?

1. When we are humble and we don't have to have all the answers. We realise that the world does not depend on us, so, we can resign as general manager of the universe. Because when I'm humble I realise that I don't have to solve all the problems in the world. I don't have to pretend that I'm perfect because God doesn't demand that I be perfect in order to be happy.

2. Selfish, self-centred people are an irritation. Nobody likes to be around them. They wreck relationships. Self-centred people are never happy! Because they are unhappy, they make everybody else unhappy. They spread all their gloom and doom simply by their self focus. Humility doesn't mean we think less of ourselves, we just think more about others. When we become interested in others we become interesting to others. We have better relationships when we're a humble person. When we’re full of pride we bruise very easily. We’re very sensitive to other people's comments. On the other hand, when I we’re walking in humility before the Lord and just being who we are, being real and honest and depending upon God, We’re not near as susceptible to insults.

3. It releases God's power and His presence in our life.

“God gives strength to the humble, but He sets himself against the proud.”

James 4:6 (TLB)

The Bible says that the secret of spiritual power is to walk humbly before the Lord, to realise we are dependent on Him. The secret to releasing God’s strength in our life is to be dependent upon Him. The key to going up to a higher level is to let God lift our life

What do we learn?

Jesus teaches us to be humble and to be happy go together. The key to higher ground and happy living is to be poor in spirit, to be dependent on God.

“Now that you know the truth, how happy you will be if you put it into practice! “ John 13:17 (GNB)

Matthew 5:3 ---> Happy are those who know their need for God, for the kingdom of heaven is theirs! (JBP)

That means that all that God has to offer is available to the person who walks humbly before the Lord. All that God has to offer is ours when we live in dependence before the Lord. The fact is that every one of us needs Jesus Christ in our lives. We need God's power to make it through next week and the rest of our life. His power is available and God is waiting to pour out His power on each of us. But we've got to ask. And we've got to admit that we need His help. We need God's power in your life. But it only comes when we humble ourself and say, "God! Help!" The person who says "Help!" is the humble person and the person who is the humble person, God says, "There's nothing I won't do for that person! The kingdom of heaven will be theirs."

Ask yourself two questions:

1. In what areas of my life do I need to practice humility?

2. In what areas of my life do I need to depend on God more?

Self - Reflection

2006-11-15T21:33:00.000+07:00

I knelt to pray but not for long, I had too much to do.
I had to hurry and get to work, for bills would soon be due.
So I knelt and said a hurried prayer and jumped up off my knees.
My Christian duty was now done, my soul could rest at ease.....
All day long I had no time to spread a word of cheer.
No time to speak of Christ to friends, they’d laugh at me I’d fear.
No time, no time, Too much to do! That was my constant cry.
No time to give to souls in need. But at last the time, the time to die.
I went before the Lord. I came, I stood with downcast eyes.
For in his hands God held a book. It was the book of life.
God looked into his book and said.
"Your name I cannot find, I once was going to write it down...
But never found the time"

How scary and how sad it is if God can’t find our name in the Book of Life. It seems like everything that we’ve done in order to “maintain” our Christian life is nothing before Him. Anyone of us knows that we need to feed our spirit, so that it can grow stronger and stronger. But, it’s so often that the routines we must do everyday replace the essential of building our deep and strong relationship with God. Time is the main reason of it. But one thing all of us need to know is that God really wants the quality of our time.

So, redeem your time! Have a deeper and an intimate relationship with God. Know His will and destiny for you. Let your spirit have rest in the presence of God and let God fill you with His love and compassion, so that you can share your life with others and your life can be the vessel which always flow the love of God to this world.

Mom's coming to Surabaya.... Hurrayyyyy!!!!!

2006-10-27T21:09:00.000+07:00

Hurrayyyyy....My mom's coming from Balikpapan!! Well, I'm so happy to meet her. She's specially coming to Surabaya not because of visitting me.. :( but for attending her niece's wedding party. It means, my cousin's wedding!! Argghhhhh..... I still remember the time when i was giving this "about to get married" cousin her English tutorial... and she's going to get married this Nov, while... Me? :( I'm still having my usual status: SINGLE!! Huaaaaaaaaaa..... Anyway... I'm so happy to see her got her "soulmate". Sure! Don't believe me? You must!!! Hahhaha... Hmmm, back to my mom's coming... :) The thing which made me happy is that I can go shopping with her, buying my new "rather expensive" sandals and clothes (that I can's afford if i buy them with my own money..), have time in the mall together ( I rarely go shopping with my mom before...). Moreover, it's been a long time for my mom coming to Surabaya. She is so busy with her work in Balikpapan that she doesn't have time to visit her "cute" daughter here. Hahhaha.... Well, the point is... I'm so happy to spend time with my mom here in Surabaya, even though we don't stay together (She stays in my auntie's home), but we really enjoy our time!! I love you, Mommmm....!!!

Beatitudes - Matthew 5:1b - 2

2006-10-18T17:14:00.000+07:00

Matthew 5: 1b – 2 ----> And when He was set, his disciples came unto him. And He opened his mouth and taught them, saying…

Word Studies:

Set : kathizo - to sit, to dwell

Historically, sitting has been associated with positions of authority: king sat on a throne; judges sat on the bench. It means that God is settle in His position and ready to minister, to listen and take important part in our lives.

Disciple : mathe’tes - A learner, a student, a follower

The disciples of Jesus Christ were called “followers of the way.” Their commitment went beyond a decision; it involves a way of life and change of lifestyle. The teaching of Jesus was from life to life and will be reflected from the changing of disciples’ lives that change everyday

To Open : anoigo - to open up, give and make available

When He opens His mouth, He blesses, He creates, He gives birth, and He makes Himself ready to minister to His disciples. Jesus opened his mouth in order to communicate clearly His message. Jesus spoke with confidence and conviction. The clarity of His words and the power of His message caused people to be astonished at His authority in the teachings.

Taught : didasko - to teach and at the same time, gives example, to give instruction, to clearly clarify the truth, to explain the underlying meaning.

True teaching takes place when the life of the learner is changed. Jesus taught more than information: He instilled life-changing concepts and character-building principles.

How does Jesus “open His mouth” and teach His disciples today?

· Through your AUTHORITIES

· Searching & Listen to Him

· Through your PRAYERS

· Talking to our Spirit and Mind Through PERSONAL MEDITATION

How are we to be taught?

• Deuteronomy 6:7 ---> And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.

• Deuteronomy 6:8 ---> And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes.

• Deuteronomy 6:9 ---> And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.

What do we learn?

Jesus always finds times to teach us something. It’s so important to have life-changing and character-building in our lives, so that every time we open our mouth to speak, there will be power to impact others. It’s more powerful to impart life that just only to give information to others. So, being a teachable disciple is not easy, but by God’s grace we can achieve it. All we need to do is just to be alert of what God wants in our lives by having a deeper and intimate relationship with Him and grow in the Word of God.

Beatitudes - Matthew 5:1a

2006-10-18T17:01:00.000+07:00

Sermon on the Mount

(Matthew 5, KJV)

In some weeks, I’m going to share about what I’ve learnt during the devotion in MSA (Morning Star Academy). This Word of God really blesses me so much coz I’m not just reading it like I usually read the Word of God, but it has a deep revelation. And for me, it’s really a new revelation and it encourages me a lot. In MSA, we also learn to memorize these 48 verses. Wow… What a hard work to do! But, I believe I can do it, and so can the MSA students. Hope you are also blessed and don’t get bored of it. Hehhehe…

Matthew 5: 1a ----> And seeing the multitudes, He went up into a mountain.

Word Studies:

· Seeing : eido – to see, to know, to understand

· Multitudes : ochlos – a great crowd

· Mountain : oros - a hill above the plain

… He went up into a mountain

The mountains of Palestine offered a place of quietness where Jesus could have private prayer and undisturbed teaching.

When Jesus saw the multitudes…

· He saw more than just a crowd of people.

· He saw each individual and each personal need.

· To hear Jesus teach, the multitudes made personal sacrifices by traveling far and difficult.

· And He was moved with compassion.

· He was alert – aware of what is taking place around Him so He can respond right.

· He saw every need in each person

· He acted promptly in delivering a message of truth that applied to each one

What do we learn?

We learn about the character of alertness. Jesus was alerted by the multitudes sacrifices that they were hunger and thirst of righteousness. This makes he was moved with compassion and He responded by fulfilling their needs.

Friendship is A Diamond (By: Sally J. Knower)

2006-10-13T20:53:00.000+07:00

Friendship is a diamond
buried in the earth;
a treasure of great worth.
But first it must be mined
then faceted and shined.
I takes pick and shovel and strain,
encompassing time and enduring pain,
until its grace is seen;
a glittering gift of love

That is shared between we there:
First God,
and you
then me.

Membuka Hatimu - Puisi

2006-10-03T22:30:00.000+07:00

Membuka hatimu

kujumpa kelembutan

membuat aku terbuai teduh

Membuka hatimu

kujumpa samudra

membuat aku bebas berlayar

Membuka hatimu

kujumpa angkasa biru

membuat aku melayang ceria

Membuka hatimu

kujumpa yang termanis

membuat aku terpikat lekat

padamu….

Curhat nih....

2006-09-21T13:25:00.000+07:00

Bete.....
Hari ini aku ngga mood banget.
Rasanya batin ini begitu tertekan.
Banyak sekali hal yang harus diselesaikan.
Ditambah tekanan-tekanan lain yang membuat aku jadi merasa semakin jenuh.
Ingin rasanya aku tidur terlelap dan melupakan semuanya.
Dengan harapan, waktu ku bangun nanti semua hal yang menekan batin ini hilang.
Lenyap! Bagaikan asap yang menghilang ditiup terpaan angin.
Arghhhhhhhh.........!!!!!
Air mataku pun mulai mengalir dipipi.
Ku tak tau apalagi yang bisa aku lakukan.
Pikiranku buntu! Bahkan, aku pun tak bisa berpikir dengan jernih.
Apalagi, orang- orang disekitarku begitu menyebalkan hari ini!
Menambah emosi dalam dada.
Tapi, satu hal yang ku tau...
Tuhanku yang besar menantikanku datang kepadaNya!
Dia tersenyum dan membentangkan tanganNya yang lembut,
Seolah Ia ingin aku segera berlari kepadaNya!
Ya, Dia begitu menantikanku!
Disaat yang paling sulit dalam hidupku, Dia ada disana untuk mengangkatku.
KerinduanNya yang terbesar adalah membawaku terbang tinggi bersamaNya.
Mengatasi badai itu.....

Berjalan Bersamamu - Puisi

2006-09-21T13:24:00.000+07:00

BERJALAN BERSAMAMU

Berjalan bersamamu…
Selalu saja ada cerita yang tak habis-habis keluar dari lubuk hati,
Bukan karena kepandaian bertutur dan berindah kata,
Tapi karena ada rindu yang bergemuruh di dada.

Berjalan bersamamu…
Waktu seakan berlari, sementara isi hati belum juga habis dibagikan,
Lalu kitapun berpisah, kala aku baru saja akan memulai percakapan baru.

Berjalan bersamamu…
betapa ingin aku….. mengekalkan waktu!

MAMA - Puisi

2006-09-08T16:22:00.000+07:00

MAMA
(By: Ay Ling)
Mama…
Kau laksana mentari yang memberikan cahaya bagi jiwaku.
Kau laksana embun pagi yang menyejukkan batinku.
Kau laksana rembulan yang memberikan kedamaian dalam hatiku.
Kau laksana pelangi yang membuat hidupku penuh warna.

Masih melekat erat dalam benakku,
Dikala kuberbaring tak berdaya, kau merawatku dengan penuh kasih.
Masih terngiang jelas ditelingaku,
Kata – katamu yang lembut penuh cinta.
Masih membekas dalam ingatanku,
Betapa sedih dan kecewanya engkau disaatku menyakitimu.

Mama…
Ku tau tak dapat balaskan cintamu.
Ku tau tak dapat berikan semua yang kau mau.
Ku tau tak dapat menjadi seperti apa yang kau inginkan.
Ku tau tak dapat senantiasa menyenangkan hatimu.

Namun satu yang ku tau…
Kau selalu mendoakanku.
Kau selalu berharap yang terbaik untukku.
Kau selalu mengasihi dan menyayangiku tanpa pamrih.
Kau selalu mendorongku disaat ku patah semangat.
Sampai kapan pun…

Terima kasih Mama…
Ku takkan pernah melupakan,
Berjuta air mata yang menetes untukku,
Berlimpah cinta dan kasih yang kau curahkan untukku,
Segala pengorbanan yang kau berikan untukku bahagia,
Semua asa yang tak pernah pupus untuk masa depanku.

I love you, Mom…
Kaulah lentera yang menerangi hidupku.
Kaulah mutiara terindah yang pernah kudapatkan.
Kaulah harta yang paling berharga yang kumiliki.Kaulah pribadi yang membuatku mengerti arti kehidupan.

I'm so blessed

2006-09-05T15:22:00.000+07:00

Dear friends,
Hi, it’s been a long time for not sharing my experience with all of you. Well… actually, I really want to share some of my experiences. But, I’m soooo busy rite now! L But, I really enjoy everything I do. Hehehe… Since I concern with education, I am so happy to be a teacher! Teaching is really an honorable occupation which has a very deep and great impact for this nation. Why is it so? Coz through education we can build our young generation, to be an excellent leaders in our community and even our nation. And I know, God put me in this area so that I can grow! Not only the students I teach grow, but also I grow!! I grow in my skill of my teaching, but also my characters. Coz I’m not only transferring the knowledge/ skill that I have but also I build my character strongly by interacting with students, parents, and other teachers. Besides, I need to impart my life that has been changed by God so that I can glorify His name. And, that’s why…. I can say that I’m soooo blessed to be part of the MSA Home Schooling Community, a community where I’m in now. In MSA I can see the desire of evry parents who commit themselves in homeschooling their children in building the right foundation and characters for their children’s future. I even see that some parents who are working, they even take one day off every week just to sit in the class and learn together with the kids. Wow… that’s amazing!!! I really blessed with their commitment and I see they pay the price for it. And I believe that through their family, they can bring a great testimony for other parents and even singles who are one day, they will get married too…

Cinta Bikin Pria Feminin, Wanita Maskulin. Benarkah??? - Research

2006-08-25T17:43:00.000+07:00

Cinta Bikin Pria Feminin, Wanita Maskulin. Benarkah???

Cinta ternyata benar-benar punya dampak yang aneh bagi manusia. Hal itu diungkapkan oleh para peneliti dari Italia setelah menguji 12 pria dan 12 wanita yang jatuh cinta selama enam bulan terakhir.
Para peneliti menemukan pria punya kada testoteron yang lebih rendah dari kadar normal ketika mereka sedang jatuh cinta. Sementara itu, para wanita ditemukan memiliki kadar hormon yang lebih tinggi dari biasanya saat sedang diliputi asmara.
Entah bagaimana, cinta rupanya membuat pria lebih feminine dan wanita menjadi makin maskulin. Seolah alam pun ingin menghilangkan apa yang menjadi pembeda bagi pria dan wanita agar hubungan kedua insan berlainan jenis kelamin itu bisa langgeng,ungkap Donatella Marazziti dari University of Pisa.
Kelompok peneliti dari University of Edinburgh juga memiliki temuan yang mengungkap soal manusia dan cinta. Mereka melihat adanya peredaman kerja sirkuit syaraf yang biasanya terkait erat dengan hubungan penting antarmanusia saat orang sedang jatuh cinta.
Kemungkinan itulah penjelasan mengapa orang sering buta akan kesalahan pasangannya,jelas Professor Gareth Leng dari University of Edinburgh. Kedua penelitian ini memperkuat bukti cinta berpengaruh pada tubuh manusia.
Penelitian terdahulu yang dilakuakn ilmuwan Itali pernah mengungkapkan unsur kimia penting di otak ikut terpengaruh oleh masalah percintaan ini. Orang yang tengah kasmaran disebut memilili kadar serentonin yang lebih rendah dari biasanya. Malah, kadar serentonin mereka setara dengan orang yang mengalami penyimpangan perilaku obsesif kompulsif.
Penelitian semacam ini membuat kita bisa memahami diri kita sedikit lebih baik. Di waktu mendatang, mungkin kita bisa menemukan terapi baru bagi mereka yang mengalamimasalah dengan hubungannya, kata Leng. (Sumber: Republika Online)

How to Deal with Friend and Lovers (Tips)

2006-08-22T21:43:00.000+07:00

Tips: HoW tO DeAL wiTh fRiEndS aNd LoVers

1. Never steal a boyfriend or a girlfriend away from a friend. There are no excuses. NONE.
2. Its best not to get involved with an ex of your friend. There are some exceptions to this, but not many.
3. If you know a friend has a crush on or is interested in someone, leave that person alone for now.
4. Always make time for your friends. Of course you want to spend time with your boyfriend/ girlfriend, but dont spend all your time with them. Make sure that you have plans with your friends and that you keep them.
5. If you know that your friends boyfriend or girlfriend got with someone else, tell them. Its never fun to deliver bad news, but its better to hear it from a friend than someone else.
6. There are circumstances when your friend will really need you. Its important to show him or her that he or she matters enough to you that you will cancel plans you have with your boyfriend or girlfriend. If this friend has emergencies all the time, thats a different matter.
7. If possible, spend time together in a group. Everyone likes to feel included, and this can work out great for all.
8. If you have a significant other and your friend does not, try not to talk about your girlfriend/ boyfriend all the time. Talk about other things
9. It doesnt hurt to play Cupid every now and then. Of course, its important to be up-front and honest about playing matchmaker and only do so when both parties are willing.
10. There are cases when no matter what you say or do to your friend is just not going to get over your new relationship. In this case, all the above guidelines arent going to make a difference. If you find yourself in a situation where a friend is refusing to come around, back off. See if giving your friend some space will help. If he or she insists on being jealous and unsupportive, I think its time to call the friendship quits. Think about it. Do you want a friend who doesnt want you to have love life...ever?

Amazing Love - Poem

2006-08-15T19:25:00.000+07:00

Amazing Love

If love were what the rose is,
and I were like the leaf,
our lives would grow together.

Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute
and it seems like an hour
sit next to a pretty woman for an hour
and it seems to be a minute.
Thats relativity!

No cord or cable can draw so forcibly,
or bind so fast, as love can do
with a single tread.

Amazing Love-

Between the Two of You

2006-08-13T20:37:00.000+07:00

Between The Two of You

The way to love someone is to lightly run your finger over that persons soul until you find a crack, the gently pour your love into that crack...

If you find out that your best friend is developing feelings for you and the feelings are in no way mutual, the sooner you communicate this, the better.
Sometimes having to be the person who does the rejecting is worse than being rejected, especially if the person you have to hurt is your dearest friend. The key is to be gentle, but not so gentle that he or she doesnt get it. If you hear about it before he says anything, its possible you can spare him some of the humiliation. You can just happen to mention that you are so happy that you dont have to go through the ups and downs of romance with him. Arent we lucky to have such a close friendship without having to worry about all the crap that couples have to worry about?If he brings it up to you, just remember to be kind to his heart. So many things you could say have become a cliché ... such as, I dont want to risk losing what we have now.Of course, if that is how you feel then say it anyway. The most reassuring thing you can do for him is to promise to not let his courageous admission hurt the friendship. Even though the first response will be to the rejectionlater he or she will worry about the friendship as well. If you want to show the ultimate respect, keep it between the two of you. Resist the temptation to tell others. This will only hurt your friend even more.
However, if the feelings are mutual, then this can be a very happy moment. Dont let your fears ruin it. Yes, its scary to venture into new territory with someone you have been close with as a friend. But the good news is you already know each other well and you genuinely like each other. There is always a risk of losing the friendship when and if you break up, but if you both agree you arent going to let that happen, the risk factor decreases. (Taken from: Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul Series)

Hampa

2006-08-08T21:56:00.000+07:00

HAMPA
(By: Ay Ling)

Malam ini....
Aku termenung seorang diri dikamar kosku.
Kekosongan mengisi relung hatiku yang paling dalam.
Dalam kesendirian aku merenung.
Ditemani alunan lagu-lagu yang merdu nan romantis

Akupun berpikir....
Apa yang bisa kulakukan untuk menepis rasa jemuku ini?
Tak lama, kuraih ponsel disisi bantal tidurku.
Kulayangkan beberapa sms kepada sahabat terbaikku.
Kutelpon salah satu nomer dari daftar nama di ponselku.
Sayangnya, hal tersebut tidak banyak menolongku.

Aku kesepian....
Kupilih sebuah buku bacaan dari rak bukuku.
Maksud hati ingin membaca, tapi kantuk yang kudapat.
Tatapanku pun tertuju pada setumpuk album foto.
Kulihat beberapa foto, tapi kekangenanlah yang kurasa.

Hampa....
Tiada hal yang ingin aku lakukan.
Tiada orang-orang terdekat disisiku.
Tiada teman yang dapat mengisi kekosongan hatiku.
Hanya kesunyian malam yang menemaniku dalam kesendirian.

Saat Cinta Menyapa

2006-08-07T15:57:00.000+07:00

Saat Cinta Menyapa

Genta bukanlah genta sebelum dibunyikan
Lagu bukanlah lagu sebelum dinyanyikan
Cinta di sanubari bukan untuk dipendamkan
Cinta bukanlah cinta sebelum dipersembahkan!

Cinta dalam bentuknya yang paling sejati
tidak memiliki bahasa atau kata.
Ia hanya memiliki seribu satu tindakan
yang berharap dapat kita jelaskan.

Cinta adalah simbol keabadian
yang menyaput segala rasa waktu,
membuang semua kenangan tentang awal
dan ketakutan tentang akhir.

Bagian hidup yang terbaik
dari kehidupan seseorang yang baik
adalah tindakan-tindakannya yang kecil,
tak bernama, dan tidak pernah diingat
mengenai kebaikan dan cinta.

Kehidupan berawal
setelah aku jatuh cinta kepadamu
Waktu dan jarak tidaklah berarti.
Kedekatan adalah urusan hati.

Mencintai dan dicintai adalah
merasakan kehangatan matahari dari kedua sisi.

Hidup tanpa cinta,
bagaikan kapal tanpa kemudi,
raga tanpa tubuh.

Dicintai begitu dalam oleh seseorang,
akan memberimu kekuatan.
Mencintai seseorang begitu dalam,
akan memberimu keberanian.

Tiada pengobatan untuk cinta,
selain mencintai lebih dalam lagi.

Milikilah hati yang tidak pernah mengeras,
temperamen yang tidak pernah lelah,
dan sentuhan yang tidak pernah menyakiti.

Untuk mendapatkan hati seorang wanita,
seorang laki-laki
harus menggunakan hatinya terlebih dahulu.

Setelah saya belajar mencintai Tuhan
melebihi kekasih saya di bumi,
Saya pasti mencintai kekasih itu
lebih baik daripada sebelumnya.

The Distance is Never Too Long

2006-08-03T16:08:00.000+07:00

The Distance Is Never Too Long

Dear Fanny,
Hi gal, its been a longggg time weve never met. Hmm, since I left for Xiamen, I think. Miss you! Miss you! Miss youuuu so much! Hehhehe... Hows Donggala?? I want to go there!! I want to go to the beach in Donggala, have sunbathing there! Hehhehe...Anyway, I miss the time spent with you like we had when we were in Surabaya. Still remember the time we had in the youth retreat with Mr. Nur? Hahahha... The time when you started to be my fans! I was so ashamed at that time! I had to be the finalist of MSI Star and everyone in that retreat insisted me to sing a song. Huaaaaa.... Its so embarrassing!! But, its so memorable experience too! Hihihihi... Well, Its almost 2 year we dont meet face to face, rite? But, Im happy that we never lose contact. I still can hear your roaringvoice on the phone! Hahhaha... Just kidding...! Your adorable sharing via short messages, and your interesting and suspicious life stories when we go on line! Wakakkaka.... Theyre all amazing and wonderful! Hey, youve promised me to go to Surabaya soon and spend your vacation here with me. I wont forget everything weve planned on the chatting: Eating Bebek Bratang and Bebek Pahlawan, watching film in the cinema, taking some pictures in the photo box, going around Surabaya, and so many excited and fun things to do with you. See you soon in Surabaya! Hmmm, Im so impatient to wait for your coming here in Surabaya....
Love always,
Ay Ling

Do you have a friend who lives far away from your hometown? Maybe he/she lives in other city, other country, or even other continents? Well, one of the most difficult challenges a friendship faces is distance. As much as you intend to call, send short message, and even go chatting on line, lets face it, it is hard. So much of friendship has to do with the time you spend together and the sharing of similar interests like hobbies, lifestyles, food, etc. To continue a long-distance friendship, trust is the most important element. Know that even though the calls, short messages, and time for chatting on line come less and less, the love is still the same; the excitement is still the same. This is proven in that moment you sit down face to face, and it is as if no time has passed at all.

Cinta itu...

2006-07-31T11:17:00.000+07:00

Cinta itu.....

Cinta itu...
Membuat dada ini berdegup kencang,
Resah gelisah tak menentu.

Cinta itu...
Membuat hidup yang tadinya hampa,
Jadi indah penuh warna.

Cinta itu...
Datang tak diundang, pergi tak disuruh,
Datang dan pergi sesuka hati.

Cinta oh cinta...
Akahkah ia datang menghampiriku?
Bilakah ia berlabuh dipelabuhan hatiku?
Sadarkahku ketika ia datang mewarnai hari-hariku?
Sanggupkahku menolaknya bila ia datang menarik hatiku?
Mampukahku terhindar dari jerat dan buaiannya yang indah?

Inikah rasanya....?

2006-07-31T11:16:00.000+07:00

Inikah Rasanya...?

Hatiku menderu bagai ombak disamudra lepas.
Perasaanku tak menentu.
Jatuh cintakah aku?
Aku tak tau!

Ingin kuberteriak sekeras-kerasnya,
Tapi tak tau kata yang hendak terucap.
Ingin kuungkapkan perasanku,
Tapi tak tau dengan apa aku hendak menggambarkannya.

Oh, inikah rasanya hati yang dilanda asmara?
Hari-hariku terasa begitu indah penuh warna.
Oh, inikah rasanya digetarkan oleh cinta?
Mabuk kepayang aku dibuatnya!

Anda yang Memilih, Anda yang Menentukan!

2006-07-24T11:56:00.000+07:00

Anda yang memilih, Anda yang menentukan!

Pernah dengar slogan itu?? Well, kalo anda penggemar Indonesian Idol, pasti anda sering mendengar Ata dan Daniel, host Indonesian Idol, mengatakan kata kata tersebut. Di Indonesian Idol, slogan itu menentukan siapa finalis Indonesian Idol yang akan keluar dari babak spektakuler, dan harus pulang malam itu. Jadi, kalo kita punya finalis favorit, dan tidak ingin finalis yang kita jagokan pulang dimalam result show, kita memilih mereka dengan mengirimkan sms sebanyak-banyaknya agar finalis tersebut tidak tereliminasi, berarti kita juga yang menentukan nasib para finalis Indonesian Idol untuk bertahan dibabak spektakuler dan menjadi Sang Idola Sesungguhnya.
Demikian juga yang terjadi dalam hidup kita bersama dengan Tuhan. Dalam hidup kita banyak hal yang harus kita pilih. Nah, pilihan dalam hidup sangat bervariasi en bisa dikatakan sangat sulit. Apalagi, banyak hal yang sangat menggiurkan yang ditawarkan, yang harus kita pilih. Namun juga, kadang ada hal-hal yang kelihatannya tidak enak dan tidak menyenangkan, tapi kita juga tetap harus memilih. Memilih dengan benar adalah suatu keputusan yang tepat. Namun itu tidaklah mudah. Kita berlu berpikir matang-matang untuk memilih dengan benar, agar hasil yang ditentukan juga baik. Karena hasil akhir yang baik ditentukan dari pilihan yang kita ambil, maka kitaperlu bijaksana dalam memilih agar hasil akhir tersebut tidak mengecewakan kita dan orang lain, bisa jadi berkat bagi banyak orang, dan bahkan memuliakan nama Tuhan.
Kitaperlu mengucap syukur pada Tuhan untuk Roh Kudus yang sudah dianugrahkan bagi kita. Well, Roh Kudus adalah seorang Penolong (Yoh 14:16), Roh Kebenaran yang menyertai kita dan diam didalam kita (Yoh 14:17), Penghibur yang akan mengajarkan segala sesuatu kepada kita dan akan mengingatkan kita akan semua yang telah Firman katakan kepada kita (Yok 14:26). So, Roh Kuduslah yang akan memberikan kita hikmat untuk memilih yang terbaik dalam setiap pilihan yang kita ambil. Itu juga kalau kita mengijinkan Dia untukmembantu kita. Maklumlah, kita kan punya kehendak bebas, yang juga berpengaruhcukup besar dalam pilihan yang kita ambil. Sering kali, kehendak bebas kita ini ga bisa menganalisa dengan bijaksana pilihan yang kita ambil. So, ada baiknya kalau kitamengijinkan Roh Kudus ikut ambil bagian dalam pilihan hidup kita, terutama untuk hal-hal yang penting dan urgent, karena disaat-saat tersebut kita perlu memiliki hati nurani yang murni, yang terdiri dari dasar-dasar kebenaran yang telah kita terima dan percaya yang menjadi pilar penyanggah dalam hidup kita. Jadi, pilihan ada ditangan Anda, karena Anda yang memilih, Anda yang menentukan!!!

Through it all - Poem

2006-07-18T12:02:00.000+07:00

Through It All
(Sarah Walcott-Sapp)

I know that this world
Isn’t always the safest place
I wanted to write this down
Because we could die tomorrow
And you’d never know
Just how much you meant to me
You have always been there
Ready to offer an ear, a hand
Or a shoulder to cry on
The happy times were great
The shared secrets and giggling
The sleepovers and bike rides
The hours spent practicing basketball
And just hanging out
But you pulled me out of bad times, too
No matter how angry I was
How stupid I acted
How depressed I felt
You and often only you
Stuck by me through everything
(And I do mean everything)
You always seem to know
When to give advice
And when to just listen
Sometimes you are my alter ego
My better half
And sometimes I am yours
I have envied you
And been angry at you
I have stolen your spotlight
And hidden in your shadow
We have bickered
And shared hugs
We have screamed and yelled
And on occasion, cried
But through it all
I have and forever will
Love you as my best friend

Challenges in Friendship

2006-07-18T11:43:00.000+07:00

Challenges in Friendship
Life is full of challenges. Challenges help us to build who we are. In friendship, we also have challenges. There are two choices we have to deal with challenge: try to resolve it or give up/ quit. Challenges in friendship need commitment and communication. When we are committed to something it means that no matter how painful or how uncomfortable something is, we will always choose to face it and work it through rather than run away from it. Communication is making a space for discussion and talking about how you feel as opposed to just saying what the other person did wrong. If you can say to a friend, “I got my feelings hurt,” rather than, “You hurt my feelings,” you are going to be able to resolve the problem much faster. There is no such thing as an honest friendship that doesn’t have as part of it disagreements, hurt feelings, jealousy, and anger. The key is to remember that the friendship is the most important thing and your pride, your need to be right, is second. Work it out with your heart and know that the friendship will only get stronger with each challenge.
Some tips to deal with challenges in friendship:
- Don’t hide from your problems
We al have devastating moments in life, when terrible, even unimagined things happen that rock our world and affect our lives in negative ways. The question is not how to avoid problems, but how to deal with them once they arrive, how to learn from them, and how to become stronger. Most of the time, we would rather pretend like our problem doesn’t exist. But the only way to begin to heal from heartbreaking situations is to accept its reality and then become willing to work on healing and changing them.
- Tough lessons teach us
Although we have learned about friendship from good things, we have to admit the big lessons that come with a consequence. For example, when we have promised to our friend not to tell it to others, you really must keep it. If you break it, he will get furious and he won’t trust you anymore because you have betrayed his trust. From this example we can learn to keep someone's secret and being a person who can be trusted.
- Be honest about your mistakes
If we can be honest about our mistakes instead of being defensive, we stand a much better chance of being forgiven. It is ironic though how often we will take the defensive and try to convince the other person, and ourselves, that we were justified in our wrongdoing. When you get in a fight with someone you care about, try to talk about it and be willing to admit what you did wrong.
- Keep your heart open
Anytime we open ourselves up to another person, we become vulnerable and can be hurt easily. Although we might be tempted to close our hearts so that we won’t feel the pain, it is so much better to stay open and trust that if you do get hurt, you will be able to work it out.
- Let friends change
Friends are there to let you be yourself and to accept you for who you are now and whoever you may be tomorrow. It’s important to remember that people change and grow, and as friends we need to let that happen; we need to lend our support, not our criticism.

Friendship-Poem

2006-07-14T11:57:00.000+07:00

FRIENDSHIP

(Carol Elaine Faiver-Scott)

Each of us has a hidden place

Somewhere deep within ourselves;

A place where we go to get away,

To think things through,

To be alone, to be ourselves,

This unique place, where we confront our deepest feelings,

Becomes a storehouse of all our hopes,

All our needs, all our dreams,

And even our unspoken fears,

It encompasses the essence of who we are and what we want to be.

But now and then, whether by chance or design,

Someone discovers a way into that place we thought was ours alone.

And we allow that person to see, to feel and to share

All the reason, all the uncertainty

And all the emotion we’ve stored up there

That person adds new perspective to our hidden realm,

Then quietly settled down in his own corner of our special place,

Where a bit of himself will stay forever.

And we call that person a friend.

Kengangguran nehh.....

2006-07-14T11:56:00.000+07:00

Nganggur Banget.....
Hari ini aku ngga tau mo bikin apa. Sebenernya ntar jam 2 siang aku ada murid les sih. Tapi, ini kan baru jam 12 siang. Tadi sempet buka Yahoo Messanger sih, ngabsen sapa aja yang lagi on line...Hehhehe. Tapi, berhubung yang on line siang2 dikit banget jadi i off aja dari tuh YM. So, daripada ngga ada kerjaan or ngelamun yang ga ada juntrungannya, aku iseng nulis blog deh. Hehhhe... Keisengan yang positif kan?? Wakakakka....

Well, hari ini aku mo curhat aja sih tentang adikku yang dalam hitungan hari lagi mo dateng Surabaya buat ngelanjutin kuliah di Stikom. Aku excited banget nih menantikan kedatangan adikku. Namanya Akwang. Terus terang, aku paling kagum en bangga sama adikku yang satu ini. Yah, sebenarnya aku juga kagum sih sama adik aku yang besar (Ationg), soalnya diusianya yang masih sangat muda (23th) udah berhasil melangkahi aku, kakaknya yang paling imoetz di keluarga , dalam hal pernikahan. Salut buat Ationg... Hahahha. Well balik ke Akwang... Akwang ini sejak kecil udah kenal Tuhan. Dia sangat aktif en selalu terlibat dalam setiap kegiatan di gereja tempat dia berjemaat. Bahkan semangatnya untuk melayani Tuhan itu membuat aku ikut tertantang untuk lebih lagi melayani Tuhan. Aku berharap selama dia di Surabaya kasihnya sama Tuhan ngga akan padam, tapi malah justru semakin "terjual habis" untuk Tuhan.

Forever Friends-Poem

2006-07-11T13:47:00.000+07:00

FOREVER FRIENDS

(Kunal Badlani)

As we travel life’s long road

We meet and make new friends.

And even though the friends may go

The friendship never ends.

That is how it is with you,

You gave me a fresh start.

You gave me vision, you gave me hope

You touched and healed my heart.

You gave me strength to do the things

You knew that I could do.

You inspired me in so many ways,

I can’t begin to repay you.

You’re always there when I need you most

Somehow you seem to know.

And that is why I hope and pray

Our friendship continues to grow.

2006-07-11T13:42:00.000+07:00

What is Friendship?

I always think what friendship is. Is friendship just a matter of relationship between someone with another or others? Is friendship merely about the closeness of two people or more who share their lives together? Is friendship referring to the quality of how we know someone or some people and the quantity of how we spend your time with them? Well, everyone has his own idea about friendship is. Friendship is a relationship which involves friends as its doers. So, what a friend really means to us? A person says a friend is someone to spend time with and to do things with. Another says a friend is someone we turn to in times of need and someone we want to share our successes with. Some say a friend is someone we laugh with and someone we cry with. Others say a friend is someone who will be there for us. Sometimes we just want our friend to be there and not say a single word or do a single thing. We just want them to be a good listener to our thought, problems and sharing. Sometimes we desperately need advice and physical support from our friends. The most important thing in any friendship is TRUST.

Who can be our friends? We can find friendship in with our family members and our significant others. Our Mom and Dad can be our friends from whom we ask for advice and support. Our brothers and sisters can be our friends with whom we can share their stuff and good companion for hanging out. But, most of our friendships are with people our same age and same sex. There are more friendships between boys and girls these days. It is also important to have friends who are older or younger than us, so we can broaden our perspectives, learn things we might not have otherwise, and not get stuck in patterns because they are comfortable or safe. It’s good to have friends who bring you new and different ways of looking at the world.

Here are some ideas about friendship:

- Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation. (George Washington)

- I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God’s gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. (Frances Farmer)

- Friends are there to defend us, to support us and to challenge us. I value my friends because they have stuck up for me when others have tried to hurt me, and they have bolstered my self-esteem when I was feeling insecure. I especially love my friends because they hold a mirror up to me and make me look at parts of myself that I sometimes don’t want to face. That’s what a real friend does: helps you to see who you are and maybe even helps you to change and become a better person. This kind of intimacy is hard to achieve. It takes a lot of honesty and willingness from both people, and a lot of trust. The quality of a friendship depends entirely on the quality of commitment and the quality of love that two friends develop over a lifetime. Friendship, like life, are a journey, something you struggle for, something that keeps changing and growing, and something that unfolds and takes shape as you live it. (Collin Mortensen)

So, guys… How about you? What a friend means to you? Let’s share out ideas of what a friend is! You may even share you experience of friendship.

2006-07-03T15:39:00.000+07:00

A Journey of Self-discovery

Dear All…

Kira – kira Ay Ling waktu SMU seperti apa ya??? Nakal seperti waktu masih SD kah? Ato, kuper seperti waktu SMP kah? Hmm, penasaran kan?? Well, masa – masa SMU bagiku merupakan masa yang paling indah dan berkesan. Kenapa?? Waktu SMU aku bener – bener belajar tentang kehidupan yang baru, kehidupan yang menentukan aku kedepannya (dimasa mendatang) menjadi seperti apa. Bingung?? Apa bahasaku terlalu puitis?? Hehhehe… Well, masa SMU itu masa transisi bagi setiap remaja pada umumnya. Masa ini merupakan perjalanan untuk menemukan jati diri (self-discovery). Kimberly Kirberger dalam buku Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul series menuliskan “Masa remaja merupakan masa sebuah perjalanan menemukan jati diri dimulai. Para remaja yang memiliki keinginan dan keberanian untuk memasuki perjalanan ini dengan tujuan untuk mengenal dirinya sendiri akan menjadi orang yang paling menemukan kebahagiaan di tahun – tahun mendatang.” So, ini juga yang terjadi dalam diriku. Aku mulai menentukan pergaulan seperti apa yang baik bagiku, gaya hidup seperti apa yang akan aku hidupi, nilai – nilai hidup apa yang mau aku terapkan dalam hidupku, bagaimana aku akan memanfaatkan waktu luangku, buku/ majalah, film/ acara TV, lagu/ jenis musik apa yang aku suka, batasan – batasan dalam hidup yang boleh dan tidak boleh aku lakukan, dan yang paling penting… personality seperti apa yang mau aku bangun dalam hidupku yang akan menentukan siapa aku dimasa mendatang.

Bukan suatu kebetulan aku melanjutkan sekolah di kota Surabaya dan bukan kebetulan juga aku tinggal di lingkungan yang serba bebas. Wah, kedengarannya asyik ya… BEBAS!! Bayangin aja, aku tinggal di rumah sepupu yang serumah isinya anak – anak muda yang sekolah or kuliah. Trus, yang namanya anak muda pasti suka “kebebasan”, dalam bergaul, having fun, en “bebas” melakukan apa aja yang kita suka. Ga ada yang ngelarang kita mo pergi kemana aja, berteman dengan siapa aja, nonton film yang kita suka, bahkan… mau pulang jam berapa aja “suka-suka kita”! Asyik banget kan?! Ga ada mama-papa dirumah. Ga ada peraturan yang mengekang kita dirumah. Pokoknya Freedom is the Best!!! Hehhehe…

Tapi… dengan adanya “kebebasan 100%” yang ditawarkan ini, aku perlu bener – bener berhati – hati dalam mempergunakannya. Emang aku bisa pergi sesukaku, melakukan hal – hal yang aku enjoy, mengikuti “gaya anak muda” yang lagi nge-trend saat itu, ato apa aja lah yang fun buat aku! Entah kenapa, aku memilih untuk tidak memanfaatkan “kebebasan” itu semaksimal mungkin. Mungkin, karena aku orang yang berprinsip en punya tujuan. Hehehhe... Ga percaya ya?? Percaya donk!!! Hihhhii… Okay, I’ll tell you kenapa aku ini orang yang punya prinsip en tujuan. Read carefully!! Aku datang ke Surabaya tujuan awalnya bukan untuk having fun, tapi untuk belajar alias ngelanjutin SMU. Alasannya aku ngelanjutin SMU di Surabaya karena aku mau mendapatkan kualitas pendidikan yang jauh lebih baik. So, I set in my mind: “Ay Ling, papa-mama cari uang susah payah untuk nyekolahin kamu di Surabaya karena mereka punya pengharapan yang besar untuk liat kamu bisa jadi orang yang pintar, dapat kerja yang baik dan sukses dimasa mendatang. So, kamu perlu serius untuk belajar dan jangan kebanyakan main (having fun).” Jadi, aku berusaha untuk jadi yang terbaik di sekolah, hidup dengan baik dan hati – hati dalam berteman. Kalo boleh dibilang… semua temen – temen yang akrab sama aku tuh tipe – tipe orang rumahan semua en suka belajar gitu. Hehhehe… Tapi, bukan berarti kalo kita ketemu, selalu yang dibicarain pelajaran… mulu. Kadang kita have fun sama – sama, misalnya ke mall bareng, jalan bareng, nonton dibioskop bareng, dll. Yah… itu kan kebutuhan dasar anak muda. Hhehhehe… Biar ga bosen belajar mulu gitu loh… J

Oh,ya sodara sepupuku suka banget ke diskotik, nonton midnite, bahkan… some of them terlibat dalam obat – obatan. Terus terang, aku sangat sedih liat hidup mereka. Tapi, thank God aku ga terpengaruh sama pergaulan en gaya hidup mereka karena aku memilih untuk menjaga hidupku tetap pada track yang bener. Padahal… waktu itu aku belon kenal Tuhan secara pribadi alias belon bertobat gitu. Tapi, somehow, aku emang ga suka pergi ke diskotik, meskipun udah bolak – balik diajak ke diskotik sama mereka. Aku lebih suka stay at home en melakukan hal lain di waktu luangku, misalnya baca komik, nonton TV, ato sekedar tidur - tiduran dikamar. Kadang aku juga sering ikut midnite sama mereka. Tapi, bukannya nonton… malah tidur di bioskop. Hihihi… Rugi banget ya… bayar mahal – mahal, cuman buat tidur disana… Abis, kadang aku bete kalo dirumah sendirian. Jadi, aku ikutan deh sama mereka. Yah, sekali – sekali ganti suasana tidurlah… Hahhaha…

Sebagai remaja yang normal, aku juga pernah jatuh cinta loh pas SMU. Hhehehe… jadi malu… Tapi, aku ga pernah pacaran. Soalnya, udah ada mandat dari mama-papa untuk ga pacaran dulu kalo masih SMU. Kata mereka, belon waktunya pacaran, konsen sama pelajaran dulu, en bla, bla, bla… Yah, aku tau sih… mereka kuatir sama aku. Mereka juga tau “resiko” menyekolahkan anak di Surabaya. Tapi, aku selalu meyakinkan mereka kalo aku akan baik – baik saja en ga bakal buat mereka kecewa sama aku. Hal tersebut aku buktikan dengan nilai – nilai sekolahku yang baik, prestasi yang aku raih disekolah, en aku selalu curhat sama mama-papa apa yang aku alami, baik suka maupun duka. selama aku di Surabaya. So, mereka bisa tenang deh… :p Trus, aku SMU kelas 3 aku menerima Yesus sebagai Tuhan dan Juru Selamat pribadiku. So, hidup aku jadi lebih meaningful, lebih powerful, and full of love, joy, hope! Dia yang memulai, Dia juga yang akan menyelesaikannya. Amin!!

Tips: WaYs tO bE YoUrSelF aNd LoVe yOuRseLf

2006-06-30T11:39:00.000+07:00

1. CeLeBraTe yOuR UniQuEnEss.
2. KnoW wHat yOu LiKe aNd dOn’T LikE.
3. lIkE whAt YoU sEe WhEn yOu lOOk iN tHe MiRroR.
4. EvErY nOw AnD ThEn, dReSs eXacTly tHe WaY YoU LikE, iNsTeaD oF dReSsiNg lIkE YouR FrIenDs.
5. ThInK aBouT tHinGs tHat mAkE yOu HaPpY.
6. ThiNk wiTh yOuR hEaRt.
7. Do sOmEtHinG cReaTivE bY yOUrsElf.
8. PiCk oNe DaY a WeEk ThaT iS “yOuR DaY” To dO whAT yOu nEeD.
9. Do SoMetHiNg aThlEtiC wItHouT cOmpeTiNg.
10. ReAd a GrEaT bOoK.
11. Do SomEtHinG kInD fOr sOmeOne elSe.
12. Do sOmEthIng kiNd anD doN’t lEt anYoNe KnoW YoU dID iT.
13. WhEn sOmEonE CoMpLimEntS YoU, lEt iT In aNd sAy, “tHaNks!”
14. PlAnT sOmEtHinG aND waTcH iT GrOw.
15. SpEnD soMe tImE aLoNe DoInG NotHinG.
16. MaKe YouR rOoM yoUR oWn. DeCorAte iT, pUt PicTurEs oF YouR fRieNDs oR wHat MakeS YoU HaPpY EveRywHerE.
17. FoRgiVe yOurSeLf fOR eVeRyThInG yOu’Ve dOnE AnD sTaRt cLeaN.
18. DrEaM bIG dReAmS FoR YoUrsElF aND kNow yOur DreAms CaN cOmE tRue.
19. SaY onE niCe tHiNg tO yOuRseLf eVerYDay.
20. StArT eAcH DaY bY bEiNg GraTefUl.

Nge-jokes yuuukkkk....!

2006-06-20T12:53:00.000+07:00

Hahaha..Hihihi...Hehhehe...Corner!

A woman was shopping at her local supermarket where she selected:

A half-gallon of 2% milk,

A carton of eggs,

A quart of orange juice,

A head of romaine lettuce,
A 2 lb. can of coffee, and

A 1 lb. package of bacon.

As she was unloading her items on the conveyor belt to check out, a drunken man standing behind her watched as she placed the items in front of the cashier.

While the cashier was ringing up her purchases, the drunken man calmly stated," You must be single."

The woman was a bit startled by this proclamation, but she was intrigued by the derelict's intuition, since she was indeed single. She looked at her six items on the belt and saw nothing particularly unusual about her selections that could have tipped off the drunk to her marital status.

Curiosity getting the better of her, she said "Well, you know what, you're absolutely correct. But how on earth did you know that?"

The drunken man replied, "'Cause you're ugly."

Poem - Suddenly I Turned Around and My Best Friend Was There

2006-06-20T12:47:00.000+07:00

Suddenly, I Turned

Around and My

Best Friend Was There

The sky was blue, the sun was bright,

And I didn’t need anyone, because I could take on the world.

I was ready for anything and everything

Except

What happened next.

There was something behind me.

Suddenly I turned around.

It was you.

You wanted to make sure I was okay.

You tried to stop me from taking crazy risks.

I didn’t need help.

I didn’t want a friend.

You were there anyway.

Later on, I was pouring rain.

I needed someone, and I was alone.

I couldn’t handle anything

Before

What happened next.

There was something behind me.

Suddenly I turned around.

It was you.

You were ready with a much-needed hug.

You forgot that I ever abandoned you.

I needed help,

I wanted a friend,

You were there when I needed you.

Whenever the weather changed,

When I was strong and when I fell

I could always count on you.

Until

What happened next.

There was something behind me.

Suddenly I turned around.

It was you.

You were crying and seemed very alone.

You couldn’t make it on your own.

I could give you help.

I could be your friend.

It was my turn to be there for you.

(Becky Welzenbach)

Si “Kuper” Ay Ling

2006-06-17T16:39:00.000+07:00

DEAR BLOGGERS,

Now, aku mo cerita tentang masa SMPku. Waktu SMP aku mulai punya beberapa temen. Tapi, ga banyak sih… Soalnya, aku tergolong cewek “kuper” alias kurang pergaulan. Hehhehee… Aku sendiri heran banget kenapa aku tuh “kuper” banget. Emang sih, waktu SMP aku ga suka berteman dengan banyak orang. Pasalnya, aku paling sebel sama temen - temen SMPku yang menurut aku, suka banget milih – milih temen. Apalagi, aku bukan termasuk siswi yang cukup populer di SMP tempat aku bersekolah dulu. Makanya, aku paling suka berteman dengan mereka - mereka yang tidak diperhitungkan disekolah itu. Misalnya, temen yang secara intelegensi kurang pandai, temen yang sangat pemalu en pendiem, ato bahkan temen yang di cap “aneh” sama sebagian besar orang di sekolah itu. So, orang – orang seperti itu lah yang menjadi temen – temenku semasa SMP.

Oh,ya… waktu SMP aku punya 3 temen yang sangat akrab sama aku. Dua dari mereka saat ini sudah menikah.<> Dari persahabatanku dengan ketiganya, yang menurut aku paling berkesan adalah persahabatanku dengan cewek yang sangat dikenal dengan si “Manusia Planet” hehhehe… Pengalaman yang paling lucu adalah sewaktu kita menjadi teman sebangku. Waktu itu, seluruh siswa sedang mengerjakan tugas sekolah. Nah, tiba – tiba muncul keisenganku untuk menjodohkan dia dengan salah satu cowok dikelas itu. Tak sengaja, aku mengacung – ngacungkan jari telunjukku untuk menggodanya. Tiba – tiba, entah karena gemes ato karena sebel terus – terusan aku godain, secara refleks dia langsung menggigit jari telunjukku itu. Aku terkejut banget. Sakit sih enggak! Jijik iya!!! Hehhehe… Sepersekian detik kemudian, dia segera sadar kalo dia udah menggigit jariku. Kontan dia langsung merasa jijik juga. Hahahhaha…! Kebayang ga sih… sebelum dia gigit jari telunjuk aku, jari tersebut udah aku pake buat macem – macem bok! Wakakaka! Salah satunya mungkin… <> :p Hehhehe, kalian pasti bisa menduga apa yang aku maksud kan??? =D Well, itu bener – bener unforgettable moment in my life selama aku duduk di bangku SMP! Soalnya… berkesan banget sih! Hahhaha…

What You Speak is What You Get!!!

2006-06-17T16:24:00.000+07:00

Monday, June 05, 2006

Hi, guys…

I’d like to share the latest experience that I’d just experienced. It’s wonderful and FRESH! God really teaches me how to count on Him, and not to worry about anything in my life. Last Thursday, June 1^st, 2006, I had cell group with some profession cell group in our church. The cell group leader shared about the season of God’s favor which God is doing right now in our church. She said that God’s favor was not only for some of us in the church, but it’s for all of us! So, it’s including ME! Wow…! God’s favor is for me too. Hmmm, how excited I am to catch this message! There’s one of the cell group member shared how God had shown His favor to her. I was so jealous of her (honestly… :p), but it made me so enthusiastic in pursuing God’s favor in my life too. I believe that, it’s God’s desire too for me to have His favor! So, I choose to have God’s favor in my life. But, the devil doesn’t stay calm with my decision! He wants to hinder me from gaining God’s favor. He attacks my weakness, which is my MIND! He keeps bombarding me with negative thinking, doubtfulness, fear, and he does anything that makes me questioning God, doubt of God’s promises in my life, worry that God never gives His favor to me, and so on. Just like today! I almost doubt to God. But, until the last minutes… still, I chose to believe in Him; even I cried and still have hope in asking for His favor for me today. Okay, I just want to share that I haven’t paid the rent of my room. Today is the dateline to pay the rent of my room. But, I haven’t got the money yet. Then as a tutorial teacher, it’s unpredictable for me to get the payment of my tutorial. It depends on the schedule I give the tutorial. So, since the beginning of this month, I’ve been praying for God’s favor in my life so that I was able to pay the rent of my room. Until this morning, I haven’t got the money. Something came into my mind… if I didn’t get the money, may be I can borrow my parent’s money first, and then return it after I got paid. But, God doesn’t like someone who has double-minded. Having double-minded is the same as we don’t believe in God’s mighty power. He wants us to have a total dependence in Him. I repented from my doubtful mind, and decide to depend on Him alone. Shortly, I got the money to pay for my room from my student’s tutorial payment tonight. And one thing, I got favor from the owner to pay the rent tomorrow morning. So, God is a Mighty God, and His provision will take place on the right time as long as you are not doubtful and have total dependence in Him. Keep on having FAITH in Him even though your circumstances press on you. Because what you speak is what you get. Have a worry free day, frenz!

"Aslinya" Ay Ling nih... :)

2006-05-31T16:40:00.000+07:00

"Aslinya" Ay Ling

ALLOW FRENZ...

Kalo diblog yang lalu aku cerita tentang masa TKku, sekarang aku mo cerita masa masa SDku deh... Hmmmmm, biar aku ingat ingat dulu waktu SD hal apa yang sangat berkesan bagiku... Oke, aku mulai dengan pengalaman pertama kali memakai kaca mata... Waktu aku kelas 1 SD, aku mengalami kesulitan dalam melihat benda benda yang jauh. Misalnya... melihat bintang dilangit, melihat contekan di meja temen sebelah, melihat cowok cakep dalam jarak pandang 10 meter, dll... Ups, bukan itu maksudku! Yang bener, aku mengalami gangguan penglihatan jarak jauh alias bermata minus. Nah, begitu aku kedokter mata untuk memeriksakan mataku, aku sangat terkejut setelah mendapatkan hasil minus mataku. Karena aku ga menyangka...selama ini aku hidup dengan mata yang hampir setengah buta! Minus 7 mata kanan dan kiri! Alhasil, aku divonis dokter untuk memakai kata mata yang sangat tebal layaknya orang jenius pada umumnya :p Tapi, aku tetap bersyukur kok sama Tuhan, karena...paling ga, aku masih bisa melihat indahnya dunia ini, meskipun dengan alat bantu penglihatan yang bernama KACAMATA ini. Aku masih bisa menyaksikan matahari yang terbit dipagi hari, melihat beraneka ragam bunga dengan warna warninya yang indah, menikmati pesona alami yang dipancarkan oleh pantai, laut gunung, bukit, lembah, sampai kemegahan bangunan bangunan modern serta gedung - gedung pencakar langit dikota. Bisa melihat semua yang aku sebutkan tadi, membuat aku sangat terkesima akan kebesaran en kedashyatan Tuhan yang menciptakan langit dan bumi serta segala isinya!
Oh,ya...waktu SD ini aku bener bener berubah dibandingkan waktu TK. Cuman... ya ga banyak sih. Berubahnya... aslinya Ay Ling udah mulai terpancar keluar! Hahahha... Maksudnya, Ay Ling yang tadinya pemalu, penakut, pendiem en cengeng...udah ga menyandang gelar itu lagi waktu SD, bahkan cenderung berani, nakal, bandel, keras kepala, en tomboy! Hiihihihi... Cuman, kalo cengengnya sih masih dikit, trus pendiemnya juga lah dikit... Aku masih inget bangte, aku suka main sama temen temen cowok, en keluyuran sama mereka. Bersepeda bareng lah, pergi ke pantai bareng lah, nyari ikan di got, sampe manjat pohon jambu airnya tetangga. Hehehehe... Lucunya, kalo manjat pohon... aku semangat banget! Eh, giliran turun... malah ketakutan. Hihihihi... Trus, kalo pergi main sama temen temen cowok, aku ga pernah ijin sama orang tuaku. Yah, tiba tiba menghilang aja... Pulang pulang, kena lah aku dimarahin abis abisan sama orang tuaku. Trus, yang namanya spanking tuh udah jadi makanan sehari hariku... Abis, aku bandel banget sih! Wah, kalo diinget - inget... malu sekaligus lucu sih. Yah... mudah mudahan, ntar kalo aku punya anak semua pada manis manis deh. Hahhaha... Oke, deh... segitu dulu share pengalaman aku minggu ini. See you next week ya...(Nb: Special thanx buat Fanny yang selalu ngingetin aku untuk post blog. Btw, yang sabar ya nunggu blogku kalo emang aku belon sempet nulis blognya... Hehheehehe... )

SI KECIL AY LING YANG PEMALU

2006-05-23T14:05:00.000+07:00

HI GUYS!
Hari ini aku pengen banget share tentang masa kecilku pada kalian semua. Yah...gini-gini, aku kan pernah kecil juga lah....hehhehe! Pernah merasakan duduk dibangku TK juga loh. Kalo aku certain masa kanak-kanakku... kalian pasti pada ga percaya. Hahahhaha... Soalnya,waktu aku kecil, aku tuhpenakut banget, pemalu banget, cengeng banget en bener-bener pendiem banget tau ga??? Nah, nah...... pada shocked semua kan?? Wakakkaka... Pasti kalian pada ga percaya kan?? Aneh bin Mustahil ya?? Soalnya......Ay Ling yang kalian kenal sekarang ini bener-bener berbeda 180 derajat dari Ay Ling kecil yang ga pede abiez...bagaikan langit dan bumi, bagaikan siang dan malam, Hmmm...bagaikan apalagi ya?? Pokoknya bener-bener buuue...da puuoooollll lah!! Ay Ling yang sekarang tuh...pede abiez! Riang, suka senyum, suka tertawa, ramah, en...susah diemnya alias CEREWET! Hihihiihihi...
Well, daripada berlama-lama... mending aku mulai cerita aja waktu aku TK tuh seperti apa. Tapi... ingat loh ya, kalo ada hal yang buat kalian geli en pengen ketawa karena menurut kalian Hah, Ay ling seperti itu waktu TK? Kayaknya ga mungkin banget deh!...... ya ketawa aja. Jangan ditahan-tahan ketawanya! Tapi ingat...dikontrol ya volumenya...(thanks banget buat someone out there yang suka ngingetin aku tentang mengontrol volume suara. Hiihihihi... Hayo, sapa yaaaa....?? :p ) Hehhehe. Ntar, orang-orang disekitar kamu terganggu loh...
Masa-masa TK tuh masa yang paling ga aku nikmatin banget, Padahal, kalo aku liat anak-anak TK sekarang ini, mereka sangat menikmati waktu-waktu bermain bersama temen-temen sebayanya, kejar-kejaran, rebutan mainan, en masih banyak kelucuan serta kepolosan mereka. Hehehe...itu pengamatanku sebagai seorang guru yang banyak menangani anak-anak kecil loh... Tapi bagiku, masa kecilku sangatlah menyebalkan, membosankan, dan menakutkan. Waktu pertama kali masuk TK, aku selalu minta dianterin en ditemenin mama or papa. Pokoknya, aku selalu minta mama or papa nemenin aku dikelas pas pelajaran berlangsung. Hiihihihi... Alhasil, aku selalu dihukum en dimasukin ke gudang or WC, trus ditemenin sama om cleaning servis TKnya. Hahahhaa...Kejadian itu terjadi hampir tiap hari di bulan-bulan pertama aku TK kecil. So, aku jadi akrab deh sama si om cleaning servisnya. Hihihiihi...
Kalo diinget-inget sifat aku waktu TK yang seperti itu...aku jadi malu sendiri loh. Abisnya, beda banget sama yang sekarang. Bahkan, mungkin banyak temen-temen yang mengira, waktu kecil aku tuh nakal banget, berani banget, suka jahilin temen, en suka ngerebut mainan temen. Wah, kalian salah besar!!!! Wakakkakaa...... Yah, thanks God aja Ay Ling yang sekarang gambar dirinya udah dipulihkan. So, udah ga kayak dulu lagi. Tapi......aku ga tau sih, kok sekarang aku bisa serame ini ya?? Hihihii...... Bukan cuman rame, tapi suka jail juga ngerjain temen-teman yang potensial untuk aku isengin. Hahahhaa...... Sori banget buat temen-temen yang sering banget jadi sasaran empuk aku jahilin...... Well, aku ngejahilin kalian, bukan karenaaku ga suka sama kalian, tapi...aku sayang banget sama kalian en aku pengen banget memberikan kenangan terindah akan existensi seorang Ay Ling, yang ga akan kalian lupakan dalam hidup kalian. Hehhehe... Aku berharap, waktu kalian sedih or lagi patah semangat... ketawaku, kelucuanku, kejailanku, en ke imoetz anku akan selalu kalian ingat en hal itu bisa membuat kalian terhibur ato paling ga tersenyum penuh arti. Hahahaha...... So, have a whole happy days ya!

Prophecies part 2

2006-05-19T06:25:00.000+07:00

This is the second part of my prophecies. Hope you don’t get bored of them! Hahahha…

The Calling of Ministering Others (The year of 2003’s prophecies)

The prophecy of Ms. Gloria Oey (Abba Love Ministry), July 17^th, 2003:

1. Family salvation

2. You are like tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither, whatever you do prospers/succeeds (Psalm 1:3)

3. Financial breakthrough

4. You will intercede for the God’s burdens put in your heart

5. You will go to higher lever of your Christian life

6. God loves you and you will have a great fear of God

7. Deeper relationship with God

The prophecy of Ms. Hana Warouw, July 17^th, 2003:

God said, “My daughter, you are like a blooming flower right now. I see that you are growing in the middle of bushes and thorns, and you have shouted. I have heard your shouting, my daughter. I never forget you coz I’m a faithful God. And, listen my daughter, you have to be strong and you have to plant your strength in Me. You have to go deeper to see that I have planted you in the fertile soil. Say to the place where you are that you will be success, you will conquer and your light will rise in the place where you are. You will see that everything around you will come to you. I’ll bring people to your ministry. I’ll bring those of broken hearted because of what had happened in your life, that you had been healed so that you can heal the broken heart, the heart which was hurt, and hearts which were ignored, even the suffering women I’ll bring into your life. I see that your heart is so merciful because I’m the one who gives it. Right now, any sickness that you’ve suffered I know it and I’ll heal it because I’m your healed God. I said to your sickness in your head, in your heart, and in your capillary healed in the name of Jesus, and we proclaim health to this lady. She will be a new creation, just like the growing flower which is blooming and beautiful, even people will see there is no bad motivations, no bad things, and everyone will be marveled. People will praise you because of My name’s sake. I will draw people to you and you will teach them the ways they are about to go through. You will give them advice. That’s why My daughter, you have to rise up in the prophetic apostolic anointing. Don’t you worry, don’t you even look at your past. You have to look at my calling in the future, because this is something new for you. You have to rise up and you will see that this is the chance; if not, you won’t see God’s power poured upon your life. God works in you. He will prepare you to go forward.

The prophecy in the Prophetic Apostolic Seminar, July 17^th, 2003:

The joy I give to you. It’s My joy that I give you. You will entertain those who are discouraged. You will give encouragement to the people who come to you. You will cheer them because I’m the source of the joy. You will keep on serving with the joy that I’ve given. There is flowing water. The river of joy flows into your heart. It’s flowing and keeps flowing. Let it always flow in your life.

I’ve called you, my daughter. You will be like Esther who is strong. I’ll bless you; even you will walk with the power of God. You will walk with the anointing of God. The anointing of God has been working in you. Keep on walking in the light, because the light of God is in you. When you go out to the people you are about to reach out, to minister, you will be a blessing for them. Be faithful and in what you do God will provide everything. Seek first the kingdom of God, that everything will be added unto you. Keep on serving God and He will strengthen you. I’ve given you the godly joy and you will be God’s warrior and put in the place where you can give impact and influence to the woman. They will see the character of mighty woman of God which has excellent spirit.

The prophecy of Ms. Ellen Jap, August 2^nd, 2003:

Ay Ling is a wonderful young eagle. She will be a mother of many children, especially those with problems. There are insight and wisdom in her and also abundant mercy. She will live in righteousness and fear of God. She will be a good example for young ladies how to live in purity and holiness. Acceptance and Comfort she gives to those who need them, and also strength and hope. She will see much grace and God’s glory when she walks with His spirit. There is insight of the future given to her.

How those prophecies had been fulfilled and about to fulfill in my life:

· I started to have spiritual breakthrough since I got those prophecies. I’m going to higher lever day by day. My life has never been the same again. I’m like the deer which thirst of water. I want God more and more. Even there are times when I felt down and discouraged. But God is faithful to raise me up. God never lets me dry and dead. He is the one who keeps on encouraging and supporting me. He gives me refreshment and new strength to face the life, to face the day to come.

· God brings a lot of people with problems to me, especially young ladies, so that I can help them out of their problems. It’s not just helping them with their problems but God also teaches me new things that I haven’t known before. So, it’s good to help those with problems because you also will grow in wisdom and insights.

· Have you ever seen me sad or discouraged? A few of you have, but most of you haven’t! Well, I’m not trying to be a doubled personality woman. But, it’s my character to be joyous in front of you. Honestly, I’m like ordinary woman who often feels sad, hurt, offended, disappointed, discouraged, and sometimes I have bad mood. But, I always share my feeling to God in my own room. I often cry and tell what I feel to God. He’s my best friend and He comforts me in times of need. So I have the joy of God that I can encourage and cheer you up because God first has encouraged and cheered me up.

Prophecies part 1

2006-05-19T06:23:00.000+07:00

Hello……It’s nice to see you again! As this is my second blog, I’m so excited to share my life experience with all of you. Well, I’m going to make the sharing that I’m going to tell you into some series. So……in this week’s blog up to the next 3 blogs, I’m going to share you God’s promises in my life through the prophetic words which are prophesized by His prophets. And, how some of them had been fulfilled in my life and the rest is about to fulfill in my life. Are you excited? I hope so! Hehhee…… I really believe that you also have God’s promises in your lives through the prophecies spoken into your lives, and your responsibility is to have all the prophecies fulfilled in your lives by faith. So……be faithful in the process of seeing God’s promises happen in your lives for He is a Faithful God, and when He promises He will make them fulfill in your lives, as long as we are not weak or discouraged.

My first calling: Sunday School Ministry (end of the year 1999)

The prophecy of Ms. Lilies (Ps. Joe’s wife):

God’s pleased by what you are doing to the kids. God loves them and God wants to use you more than what you are doing right now. You have a meek heart, extra patience, and seriously in ministering the kids, even you are afraid to discipline them. But God wants to use you deeper; He wants you to discipline them in love. God will give you creativities if you asked Him.

The prophecy of Ps. Stanley:

You hands will be used to minister kids who have problems, kids under parents’ pressure and lack of parent’s love. You will help them thoroughly free; bring them from the darkness to the light. The kids even will have the ability to pray for the salvation of their parents. Your ministry is not merely ministering kids, but you will release them from any pressures. Even though they are kids, they also have pressures in their lives, and you will make them laugh and free.

The prophecy of Ms. Joan (Ps. Stanley’s wife):

As you serve Me, do My part, you will see I am God who answers prayers. I know your burden and prayer for your family and you will see that one time in your life your family will be saved.

How those prophecies had been fulfilled and about to fulfill in my life:

I started my Sunday School Ministry in the year of 2000 after I had those prophecies. I like kids very much. For me, kid’s world is so interesting and challenging. I began to impress with Sunday School Ministry when I saw kids were like jewels, which were so precious. If we could polish them, they would shine brightly and the value would be costly. So, I chose to put myself in the process of polishing these precious jewels so that they will shine so bright and valuable. It’s been five years I teach in Sunday School, and I’ve seen the kids growing more and more in knowing God’s word and in building Godly characters.
I’ve been praying for the salvation of my whole family since I was saved. There are five of us in the family. My parents are non believer and I have two brothers. My youngest brother had been saved. I believe if one is saved the whole family will be saved. At the end of the year 2002, God answered my prayer. My younger brother was saved too. Now, we’re still praying for the salvation of our parents. And we believe that in this year they will be saved.
I’m a woman of joy. Smile’s always on my lips. I don’t know why I have this happy, smiling face. This joy makes me feel younger and younger. Even though I will be 27 this year, but I look 10 years younger. Hahhaha! I believe that my smiling face will bless others. So, I won’t let the devil steal the joy that I have and as God wants me to think about others’ needs, I learn not to be selfish in my live. I learn to be an encourage giver for others, to bless other’s need with my prayers, and to be a good listener to other’s problems, and to be a good companion in joy and sadness.

Welcome to my Blog!

2006-05-19T06:18:00.000+07:00

Hi guys,

I’m glad see you all! Well, first of all, I’d like to welcome all of you to my Blog. Hope that this blog will be a blessing for all of you. Wish all the best to all of my blog readers, be happy in your life, and let a smile fill the whole of your days. God bless and love you! J

Tuesday, May 2^nd, 2006

Hello guys,

This is my first time to write a blog. Well, thanks for two of my best friends who always “insist” me in starting to write a blog (Thanks a lot for Andi en Fanny…See, guys I’ve started my first blog!). Hehhehee… I’m so thankful (and also a bit annoyed, hehheehe…, but it’s good to be honest, rite???) that both of them keep on “forcing” me and “intimidate” me every time we were chatting on Yahoo Messenger. Well guys, actually I’m planning to have my own blog as most of your blogs which I read, have blessed me so much. But, I’m just afraid that I’m not consistent enough to write a blog as I start to be so busy these days and I have to go to the internet café one a week to check my emails and write my blog. However, I’m so happy to be part of the Bloggers! Haha! Well, for the new beginning…I’ll start with sharing my 2006 Faith Goals. Hope all these faith goals will be fulfilled this year as it’s already in the middle of the year. And, I want to share to all of you that I have been on the way of seeing some of my faith goals to be fulfilled in my life. So, I keep on believing God to see all of them come true in my life. Well, I’d like to encourage all of the readers to keep on believing God for all your faith goals and dreams too! Jia you!!!

Ay Ling’s Faith Goals 2006:

Being a woman of noble characters (Proverbs 31:10-31)
Being a woman of FAITH (Mark 11:13)
Being a woman who has FEAR of GOD (Integrity)
Pursuing deeper intimacy with god (having spiritual disciplines: consistency in reading Bible, praying,etc)
Financial breakthrough
Pursuing holiness in mind, heart, body and action
Having more passion for God and compassion for the lost (Reaching out to spread the Kingdom of God)
Getting married in October 2006
Family salvation (for my parents)
Good both in Chinese and English (spoken and written)
Being a good teacher who is loved by the students, able to teach well and even has the ability to teach any kinds of students (low intelligence students, hyperactive students, etc)
Fruitful in every area of life (Ministry, Work, Spiritual life, etc)
Growing in Godly characters
Lose weight 5 - 10 kilos